One aspect of American life that I noticed when moving here from overseas some years ago is an unspoken respect of common courtesy. In contrast, where I grew up, the behavior of the citizenry is actually very boorish.

It didn’t take me too long to notice how Americans treated each other, especially in their shopping habits. They gave each other space — they didn’t jam up behind you in line like they did back home. They didn’t try to cut in front of you at the cash register like they did back home. They asked if you were next in line unlike back home.

At first I thought it was me, but I noticed they extended this civility to each other, as well. Yes, life in America is so pleasant. Such a shame to notice some of my fellow emigre have yet to emulate these courtesies. My suggestion is if you have difficulty in changing, teach your children these most pleasant habits. Perhaps when they go back to visit the country that Mum and Dad left, it will catch on. What a lovely world it will become.

Phillip Alamangos

Redmond